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We come to this plane of existence in full remembrance of who and what we are, but we quickly learn to forget, and cling to the false reality of this place. Each month, I offer a reminder of the ever enduring Spirit that is YOU!
- Wiah

Remembers for

Deprivation…

November 4, 2006 @ 8:56 am

…THE STATE OF PERPETUAL DENIAL OF THE PRIMORDIAL STATE OF ETERNAL FULFILLMENT.

“Deprivation of Self creates a never ending hunger that increases with each passing day and every attempt to satiate.”

Deprivation permeates and takes many manifestations; one manifestation that is very common is the held state of being “not good enough”. “I’m Not Good Enough”…because I exist in constant deprivation.

I am “nothing” so therefore I must become “something” to be “good enough”…But with all my attempts to “become” I constantly fall short of permanent transformation.

My body and face are not good enough as they are, so I must make changes to be “good enough” …But no matter how hard I try, there is always something missing, and my feelings of being good enough become more fleeting and more scarce. Therefore, I must try harder to create that perfect image that never seems to manifest.

I must achieve to become “good enough” :

Achievement in the collection of knowledge and information… it fails me because there always seems to be something I don’t know and areas of conversation where my knowledge is “not good enough” or useless. Therefore I am “not good enough” or useless… I, therefore, must try to acquire more knowledge and information.

Material Achievement… it fails me because no matter how much I have, it is never “good enough”. No matter how much I collect, it always seems to be slipping away, so I have to work harder to make up for what is being constantly lost.

Physical Achievement… it fails me because no matter how good I am at a specific activity there is always someone better. No matter how good I am or how hard I try, my physical body changes and, once again I am “not good enough”.

My incessant need for “fulfillment/approval” leads me back to my original starvation. My constant lack of fulfillment exists as a background colour to my instances of fleeting fulfillment… the desperate hunger of deprivation endures…

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